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The Good Short Life By DUDLEY CLENDINEN Published: July 9, 2011 I HAVE wonderful friends. In this last year, one took me to Istanbul. One gave me a box of hand-crafted chocolates. Fifteen of them held two rousing, pre-posthumous wakes for me. Several wrote large checks. Two sent me a b964 次阅读|没有评论 -
3Finally, I came back from SH last night. Though this two-day trip is everything but glamorous and enjoyable, I still have to say a big “thank you” to it for the great lessons I have taken out of it. Since I came back from AU more than three years ago, I haven’t planned a single trip for any
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8Today, I was shocked by my independence and adaptability. I don't care about how others would judge. To me,being able to book the train ticket and the hotel a head of time with low price, and taking metro with google map's help to find the hospital's location while feeling at peace with gratitude i
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710.3 从来就不是一个怀旧的人。在人生的旅程中，一直都是以 “MOVE FORWARD” 和 “ MOVE ON” 这样的信条生活着。但是今晚，很难得的怀一下旧。来讲述自己次生难忘的一段感情。 长话短说。 我们彼此认识的时候，还都是青涩年华。他大学
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29.19 今天做了 40 分钟的 walking meditation 。感觉很好，在做的时候能够非常清楚的感受到那份内心的平静。 因为昨晚睡得很迟，早上 7 点不到起床，外加上学习比较疲倦，在中午的时候一个人去味千犒劳了自己一下。每天吃一样的凉拌菜，再好吃也会有那么一丝腻味。和 M 的通话虽然很短，但是也是很温馨的。我能深
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2终于从美丽的日本回来了。回来的时间是 16 日的下午，头脑里堆积了一大堆的想法，杂乱而零散。但是想想，如果不在这个清爽的雨夜把自己的感受写出来。恐怕会让所有的灵感都丢失在时间的长廊里。待 10 或者是 20 年后，完全没有任何的回忆。 昨日在读T he Organized Mind 一书时，才发现，写作不仅仅可以表达情感，
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2Being able to say that I come to this planet for the process of learning instead of the result of it is enough. Noting stays forever; no matter how many hours I have been spending working on a skill, it can only stay with me “for a while. “It could be 50 years, and it could be less,
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3今日看西藏生死书The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying,真是一本极好的书籍。结果对于病痛有了更加好的理解： 每当因为病痛而彷徨之际，不要忘了告诉自己。 每个人都有病痛。每个人的痛不一样。 不要畏惧，学习去观察它。学习去面对它。 要感谢病痛给你的恩典。 1. &
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7昨天和今天都有看 HTML 的书，虽然花了很多的钱去买课程，但是我一点都不后悔。很多的事情，从小小的点滴开始，会有慢慢的回报。比如说保持了游泳和散步的习惯，现在每天都会觉得心情很愉悦。及即使是在情绪低落的时候，走上 20 分钟左右的路，或者是游上 40 分钟的蛙泳，就会觉得一切都会好起来。太阳会照常升起。 SAT
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10今日南京一整天雨水，难得一日休息。下午，略寂寞。于是突发感慨，考虑了自己的爱人应该是何等模样，于是，有了下文 I would rather be single till I die than staying with a man who doesn't know what he wants, and who he is on this planet. My man should know his place in this world. He knows
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7还是用中文最能表达自己的思绪。读完纽约时代的关于自审的文章后。决定有些时候需要像观察一个陌生人那样的来观察自己。从 6 月 18 号的确诊到今天的 8 月 11 号的晚上。我知道自己经历了何等的蜕变。 最初的几天是麻木。对自己未来的极大的不确定特性的麻木。不知道自
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5Since the dreadful diagnosis of possible MMN on 10 th of June, 18 long days have passed. For the first two to four days, I was not able to sleep and eat well; my stomach would wrench and heart would lose a beat or two no matter when and where I thought of the topic. My Spiritual training fr
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4The moment that the veteran doctor diagnosed me with MMN( 多灶性运动感觉神经病 ), I was neither scared nor nervous; “what is that?” I asked with pure curiosity （ I am not crazy, I told myself, and the name is gross ） .The nice doctor in his 60s chose not to answer me straightforward, but
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3今天做的勇敢的事情：） 肌电图很勇敢。 本以为肌电图是非常痛苦的事情。针头扎入四肢的肌肉，然后在里面游弋，来定位肌肉是否萎缩。最后因为医生高超的医术，顺利的做完。从中可以学习到的课程，不要因为自己的偏见，去定义很多自以为了解的东西。 4 年以来，一直会因为邻居的噪音（房间墙壁太薄）而
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7许久未曾为自己写点东西 晚上教阅读。在地铁下来后，还需要再走 30 分钟，路过一片林间小路，嘈杂的内心少许可以安静下来一些。这些年，从不知咖啡与红茶为何物，到美式和拿铁需要 2 到 3 杯一日，不知道自己为了优越的生活，把自己多彩而青春的生命的多少卖给了工作。等到 5 点 30 到达教室的时候，已经精疲力竭，前
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4It is quite shocking to read a NYT article titled why you hate work . The article shows that around the globe, only less than 13% of people enjoy their occupations. Even in US, one of the most powerful and affluent countries around the world, the figure is about 30%. In sum, the majority of
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4THIS IS HIS COMMENTS AFTER I TOLD HIM TO TAKE CARE AND NEVER SEE ME AGAIN You think it's a sad story, A sad story even for our friendship. I don't admit and I never will. I don't want "take care", and "take care" is never enough. I made mistakes,
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126.4 Two years ago, he left me with no regrets. Now, he is back from US and asking for a meeting. What’s the hell going on? I can still remember that I prayed hard a few days ago to GOD desperately, and asked THE LORD to show me a sign, and bring someone with good characters into m
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小说，小说！ 首先，越来越发现不能相信所谓媒体对于某一本小说的过度渲染。 AMERICANAH 的作者写出的语言很平淡。没有特别丰富的情感在里面。的确，作者讲述的第一代移民生活的情感和血泪吸引眼球，但是，感觉对于这种小说，只是看了 10% 不到，就没有继续往下的兴趣了。是什么让它拿到了国家书评协会小说奖。我觉得也许应457 次阅读|没有评论
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3After late morning’s teaching, I went to hospital with mom and dad for my Polio. The hospital is as crowded as anyone could possibly imagine. Anxious faces were everywhere, and the whole space was full of negative energy. Luckily, I was not alone. I was so touched that my sick mother came for
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26.2 Today truly was a busy day. I went to have afternoon tea with two of my high school classmates. I originally expected to have a nice conversation with both of them. Unfortunately, the sad fact that our lives have gone to different directions made it really hard; Dong
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95.22 （重要） 今天早上 10 点多起床。总算睡了一个 OK 的觉。昨晚和弟的对话持续了近 4 个小时，虽然很疲倦。但是很值得。其实最主要的还是听他在芝加哥的生活。 3 个学期，从录音笔的听课开始，到可以独立用 C++( 几乎从零开始学 ) 一个人去做４个人的活。加入学校的游泳队，参加国家联赛。假期的时候可
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在被蛊惑了多年要做我们爱做的事情，工作必须要爱到极致才能有价值。我一直在考虑的一个问题是，如果世界上所有的人都要去做有PASSION的工作，地球会不会停止旋转。 在这个炎热的夜晚，NYT的清新好文外加260多位读者的评论，让我的思绪变得不再那么模糊。看来，人类是有共性的。 The Stone
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15.19 心情，非常的好，略有激动 DEAR DIARY: 今天终于到了周一，威斯丁的游泳池需要换水，而且需要 3 个工作日。知道这一点的我，早上 10 点才慵懒的起床。昨晚梦见和一个很好的朋友去一个地方。爬上很高的梯子，用彩色的铅笔盒颜料在墙上五彩斑斓的作画，起来仍然感到很开心。很喜欢画画，也很喜欢高高的地方
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3今天上午8:30起床，昨晚睡眠不好，只好先去咖啡。早饭也顺带在咖啡店解决。 虽然只是两个很小的warp,但是因为有了培根番茄和鸡蛋，感觉很是诱人。 10点约了教练健身，分别做个各组肌肉的恢复训练。以前很讨厌健身。流汗不说，动作也很机械。就是各种器材的来回运作，倒不如找个自然的地方，有水有树，静谧安然。悠然走路来的舒适和自在。现
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2昨天在LYNDA.COM上面看一个老师教CREATIVITY WORKSHOP，其他的部分感觉都没有太大的领悟。但是，有一个点，就是3分多钟的长度，真的是听到心里去。那就是为什么我们会在做自己哪怕最喜欢的工作一段时间后，也会遇到瓶颈。 这个问题很多次的去想，答案也出现过多次，是不是薪水翻倍，工作时间灵活，工作可控性更强...瓶颈期就会过去，发现最终
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4今天中午 11 多才去游泳， 12 点多的时候，游泳池里面一个人都没有，可以看到远处的山和湖。但是，幸福感只是持续了短短的一瞬间。再然后，就是麻木的感觉。一直告诉自己，需要最好的游泳池，需要体贴而专业的教练，但是当这一切成为习惯，只有麻木和更多的不满足。 下午去走湖（现在我很喜欢这个单词），感觉听 MEDITATION 的时
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2SATURDAY WEATHER: RAINY MOOD: EXHAUSTION It's almost 10 PM, and I have just arrived at home from 10 hours of teaching( American Literature,Writing etc.). After years of teaching, i feel numb sometimes; this is especially true after a long day of immersing myself in English witho
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